swamp ophelia

I should really start counting how many times a week I have to say to someone, “No, that has nothing to do with gender. It’s just because sometimes people are shitty.” Because, really. I should not have to be telling people this in 2011.

this whole morning i had something i wanted to post about. and it was at least vaguely important. but then lj was down and down and down and now that it's working again...i can't remember what it is.