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lirazel ([personal profile] lirazel) wrote2012-12-07 10:04 am

LOVE TIME

First of all, thank you all so much for being so kind about my sister. You are all so lovely and generous with your compassion, and I really appreciate it. She's doing fine; sore and thirsty all the time and only sleeping on and off, but that's to be expected and will pass soon.

[Also, I know a few of you who know how much I love hugs and how much my sister hates it when anyone touches her and how much we battle over JUST GIVE ME A HUG DAMMIT!/NO I DON'T LIKE TO TOUCH PEOPLE GO AWAY!--we are basically Myungsoo and Yeoljong and I am Myungsoo omg how ridiculous is that--will get a kick out of this: she let me hug her the night before the surgery, in her words: "Just in case I die." THAT GIRL. Always the silliest. I love her a ridiculous amount.]

I always feel vaguely guilty about doing these things, like asking for people to say nice things to me? And then I get mad at myself because there is NO REASON that I shouldn't love to get compliments as much as I love to give them (which is a lot). So I'm doing it, guilt be damned. If you feel the ~spirit move you to leave me a message, do it. If you don't, don't do it. No guilt either way. No guilt. This is a no-guilt zone.

holiday love meme 2012
my thread here




And since I sincerely believe that love should be a mutual thing when at all possible, if any of you have signed up for the meme, please feel free to link me to your thread because I would love to say nice things to you but I'm way behind on my flist, so. Link away!

[identity profile] penny-lane-42.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much! I kept reminding myself that people go through much, much more invasive procedures every day and it was just outpatient so it was really a small thing...but it's hard to internalize that when it's your baby sister, you know? Anyway: yay!

AND LOL, I DO THE SAME WITH MY SISTER. Like "you don't hug me enough" "what, i do" "NO YOU DON'T, HUG ME NOW." Sisters though <3333

♥ I love this. Sisters are the best and the most ridiculous!