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lirazel ([personal profile] lirazel) wrote2012-12-07 10:04 am

LOVE TIME

First of all, thank you all so much for being so kind about my sister. You are all so lovely and generous with your compassion, and I really appreciate it. She's doing fine; sore and thirsty all the time and only sleeping on and off, but that's to be expected and will pass soon.

[Also, I know a few of you who know how much I love hugs and how much my sister hates it when anyone touches her and how much we battle over JUST GIVE ME A HUG DAMMIT!/NO I DON'T LIKE TO TOUCH PEOPLE GO AWAY!--we are basically Myungsoo and Yeoljong and I am Myungsoo omg how ridiculous is that--will get a kick out of this: she let me hug her the night before the surgery, in her words: "Just in case I die." THAT GIRL. Always the silliest. I love her a ridiculous amount.]

I always feel vaguely guilty about doing these things, like asking for people to say nice things to me? And then I get mad at myself because there is NO REASON that I shouldn't love to get compliments as much as I love to give them (which is a lot). So I'm doing it, guilt be damned. If you feel the ~spirit move you to leave me a message, do it. If you don't, don't do it. No guilt either way. No guilt. This is a no-guilt zone.

holiday love meme 2012
my thread here




And since I sincerely believe that love should be a mutual thing when at all possible, if any of you have signed up for the meme, please feel free to link me to your thread because I would love to say nice things to you but I'm way behind on my flist, so. Link away!

[identity profile] youcallitwinter.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 04:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my god, I just read your previous posts and I'm SO GLAD your sister is fine, that had to be ridiculously scary to go through D: AND LOL, I DO THE SAME WITH MY SISTER. Like "you don't hug me enough" "what, i do" "NO YOU DON'T, HUG ME NOW." Sisters though <3333

[identity profile] penny-lane-42.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much! I kept reminding myself that people go through much, much more invasive procedures every day and it was just outpatient so it was really a small thing...but it's hard to internalize that when it's your baby sister, you know? Anyway: yay!

AND LOL, I DO THE SAME WITH MY SISTER. Like "you don't hug me enough" "what, i do" "NO YOU DON'T, HUG ME NOW." Sisters though <3333

♥ I love this. Sisters are the best and the most ridiculous!

[identity profile] crdbsarmiento.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 04:21 pm (UTC)(link)
If I'm in the same place as you I'd visit you every morning (before uni class) and evening (after uni class) and give you warm tight hugs!

[identity profile] penny-lane-42.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 04:29 pm (UTC)(link)
That is the loveliest thing to hear!!!

(Also Yeollie's shoulder is the loveliest thing to see!
snickfic: Buffy Dawn weird love is better than no love (Buffy Dawn sister love)

[personal profile] snickfic 2012-12-07 05:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, thank goodness everything is fine with your sister! And my sister is totally the same way about hugs. She gives me one when we won't see each other for six months, because she feels obligated.

[identity profile] penny-lane-42.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank goodness indeed! She's fine and craving greasy food again even if she's too sore to do much but lay around. So I am happy and rejoicing!

And my sister is totally the same way about hugs. She gives me one when we won't see each other for six months, because she feels obligated.

Haha, yes! When one of us has been out of the country for a while, I get hugs before depature and upon return. Other than that, it's like pulling teeth!

[identity profile] kwritten.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Your sister and my sister would be fast friends, I'm convinced. (Only mine would probably troll yours for not knowing the finer points of fandom-porn) ... I only see her once every couple of years and so puts up with a lot (like me pulling a Gyu and piling on top of her in order to wake her up, Insisting that we sleep in the same bed, and squishing her all the time) ... I can't Imagine what she'd do with me if we lived closer to each other.

Sisters. Most important of all the people. I AM HEAPS OF GLAD yours is doing okay!!!

[identity profile] penny-lane-42.livejournal.com 2012-12-07 08:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Only mine would probably troll yours for not knowing the finer points of fandom-porn

And mine would be TOTALLY GROSSED OUT by that!

I only see her once every couple of years and so puts up with a lot (like me pulling a Gyu and piling on top of her in order to wake her up, Insisting that we sleep in the same bed, and squishing her all the time) ... I can't Imagine what she'd do with me if we lived closer to each other.

Awww!

Sisters. Most important of all the people.

Amen!

Thank you so much for sharing my joy!!!

(your icon! *sobs*)