I find the show nearly infuriating because it's so uneven. You have great, great aspects--Cordy when she's written right, some of the really fascinating Darla stuff in S2, "Not Fade Away," Lilah, Gunn, Spike-and-Angel-snarking, "Are You Now Or Have You Ever Been?", Lorne, etc.--and then just some of the worst stuff Joss has ever produced. I sometimes get whiplash watching it.

But yes. Yes, yes, yes about the way women are so disposable. It's troubling. And actually gets more so--not less--the more I think/read about it.