This isn't just a feminist issue, this is a normal, functioning human being issue. I actually had a line along these same lines when I originally wrote this post, but I was so incoherent that I took it out. I'm so glad you said it so succinctly and accurately.

This reminds me of a headline I saw on the cover of a men's magazine once: How to Cheat on Her Without Her Finding Out! I remember you saying that! And it stuck with me and on occasion I think about it and the anger just bubbles up....

Seriously. I just want to scream, "Where is your SOUL?"

Hey! I used to have that icon! Poor Dean.