Well, I prefaced it by saying I was sorry that I was going to mention a few things I disagree with. And I think penny_lane_42 mentioned that it's as much meta as fanfic, so I took it as something that can be discussed.

Maybe I haven't made it clear that I do generally agree with the idea that Spike was not someone Buffy considered her "type" - for lots of reasons (and same goes for Buffy not being what Spike considered his "type").