Ah, okay, we're on the same page--maintenance SUCKS.
It's so strange how people react to theirs and other people's. My sister has a complex because she thinks hers are too small, but honestly, they're really quite proportional? IDK. I've never had feelings about mine either way size-wise except to be glad that I don't have to deal with back aches and things like some of my larger-chested friends. I hate that people say that stuff to you, though.
I am also pear-shaped! I use to be shaped like a toothpick but low and behold I now have hips! Still no butt, but being sans shoulders, I am much wider on bottom than I am on top.
There's no other part of the body that requires uncomfortable gear just to exist
AMEN!!!!!!!
Maybe you should talk to a doctor about your pain? It could be nothing, but it could be something?
what if you wore bras with a clear strap to work? Would that still count against you?
I'm not sure. The clear straps are so shiny, you know? You can usually see them, but I have no idea whether that would count or not here.
I do have a few dresses that have like built-in padding on the top and when I wear those, I never wear a bra. But I need to get more used to the idea of not wearing them with other things....
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It's so strange how people react to theirs and other people's. My sister has a complex because she thinks hers are too small, but honestly, they're really quite proportional? IDK. I've never had feelings about mine either way size-wise except to be glad that I don't have to deal with back aches and things like some of my larger-chested friends. I hate that people say that stuff to you, though.
I am also pear-shaped! I use to be shaped like a toothpick but low and behold I now have hips! Still no butt, but being sans shoulders, I am much wider on bottom than I am on top.
There's no other part of the body that requires uncomfortable gear just to exist
AMEN!!!!!!!
Maybe you should talk to a doctor about your pain? It could be nothing, but it could be something?
what if you wore bras with a clear strap to work? Would that still count against you?
I'm not sure. The clear straps are so shiny, you know? You can usually see them, but I have no idea whether that would count or not here.
I do have a few dresses that have like built-in padding on the top and when I wear those, I never wear a bra. But I need to get more used to the idea of not wearing them with other things....