haha - typically I don't hate mine. It's mostly the maintenance (aka- bras) that bothers me.
((Also most of my family has been ~jealous of them and so all I've ever gotten is nasty remarks about mine. Which are a B-cup, not even really that large - especially for how WIDE my hips are and ridiculously oversized my butt is I mean really it is the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen - so I've never really thought about them much except to try NOT to think about them until recently.))
I know I should probably just re-adjust into bras. I like having them because my pear-shape needs them. My body is exactly the shape it should be. It's just ... UGH. There's no other part of the body that requires uncomfortable gear just to exist. It's stupid.
Usually the sports bras treat me very well and I don't even have to think about them - they just ARE and it's nice. Now something is wrong and I'm uncomfortable. It's terribly unpleasant.
Also - what if you wore bras with a clear strap to work? Would that still count against you? That way, you could still wear a bra - and it wouldn't be seen necessarily?
Or - bb - if they really are that small, why not just try out not wearing one outside every once in a while and letting yourself get used to the idea/look? Like - "I'm going to the grocery store sans bra in a cute top and who cares?" Just an hour or so out and about and maybe you'll stop feeling so uncomfortable about the idea? Because honestly, it shouldn't matter.
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((Also most of my family has been ~jealous of them and so all I've ever gotten is nasty remarks about mine. Which are a B-cup, not even really that large - especially for how WIDE my hips are
and ridiculously oversized my butt is I mean really it is the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen- so I've never really thought about them much except to try NOT to think about them until recently.))I know I should probably just re-adjust into bras. I like having them because my pear-shape needs them. My body is exactly the shape it should be. It's just ... UGH. There's no other part of the body that requires uncomfortable gear just to exist. It's stupid.
Usually the sports bras treat me very well and I don't even have to think about them - they just ARE and it's nice. Now something is wrong and I'm uncomfortable. It's terribly unpleasant.
Also - what if you wore bras with a clear strap to work? Would that still count against you? That way, you could still wear a bra - and it wouldn't be seen necessarily?
Or - bb - if they really are that small, why not just try out not wearing one outside every once in a while and letting yourself get used to the idea/look? Like - "I'm going to the grocery store sans bra in a cute top and who cares?" Just an hour or so out and about and maybe you'll stop feeling so uncomfortable about the idea? Because honestly, it shouldn't matter.
#the system is defective