I sent another Anon message this morning which the the admin responded to - and again, she was apologetic (YAY!) and humble about it (YAY!) but then trawled out the excuses again too and showed total cluelessness about the crux of the problem. BOO.
God, poor everyone. The admins, the women and girls following this blog, all of this fandom in general. POOR EVERYONE. (Poor Myungsoo. He'll never see it thank goodness, but it was hard to read, on his behalf alone. Hence the need for WARNINGS.)
This fandom brings me more joy than possibly anything else I've been involved in since I entered fandom in 2007. I don't say that lightly. The last 6-8 months have been like a dream discovering all of this WONDER and EXCITEMENT and pure, unadulterated JOY. And frankly, I only expect it to grow. There is so much goodness here, so much to love, so much that enriches my life in a number of ways big and small.
So yeah, this is a cold pail of water. And I don't know how to address this because that story and all the reactions to our messages tells me that we've hit the Kpop fandom iceberg, so to speak. Now we have to face it and deal with it. And it seems way too huge to even know where to begin. I'm paralyzed with not knowing how to handle it.
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God, poor everyone. The admins, the women and girls following this blog, all of this fandom in general. POOR EVERYONE. (Poor Myungsoo. He'll never see it thank goodness, but it was hard to read, on his behalf alone. Hence the need for WARNINGS.)
This fandom brings me more joy than possibly anything else I've been involved in since I entered fandom in 2007. I don't say that lightly. The last 6-8 months have been like a dream discovering all of this WONDER and EXCITEMENT and pure, unadulterated JOY. And frankly, I only expect it to grow. There is so much goodness here, so much to love, so much that enriches my life in a number of ways big and small.
So yeah, this is a cold pail of water. And I don't know how to address this because that story and all the reactions to our messages tells me that we've hit the Kpop fandom iceberg, so to speak. Now we have to face it and deal with it. And it seems way too huge to even know where to begin. I'm paralyzed with not knowing how to handle it.