Oh, we're cool here. I understand that need to vent. I just have this knee-jerk reaction of PANIIIIIIC when I see a lot of bashing going on, because I start automatically counting the minutes 'til a big fan-war erupts.

I wanted this post to be more balanced, and I think people really stepped up to the plate for that, and I'm glad.

I am glad too. Tbh, what I was worried about was that some Xander fans might show up and become defensive and then get mass-attacked for disagreeing. That stuff always makes me feel a little sick. But I acknowledge that I was probably overreacting there. :)