I want to know about the introversion and church book, too!

deird, I totally hear you on the church thing. The churches I've attended have always been pretty good about thing, iirc. Although now I wonder if that's just because they were super into social justice/other activities and even though I practically lived there (or actually did, in the case of my campus ministry, which had two people who lived upstairs), I never went to any "women's groups" or anything.