Well, she's my hero here, too, so I would definitely say you can idolize her!

Hopefully the next section will please you as much as this one!

I loved the Buffy curling up with Dawn in the middle of the night to finally let herself feel the pain, the hole that Spike left. I've had my sister come crawl into my bed in the middle of the night and sob on my shoulder a few times...so that seemed an important part of the process for me. Glad it rang true.