I agree so much with THE LADIES and THE RELATIONSHIP. Tris is one of my fave YA main characters EVER. She's SO AWESOME and her relationship is SO DAMN GREAT. I didn't like the third book that much (how it was written + I didn't really buy the explanations of how it all happened, truth be told), but it was SO worth it because not only the first two books were incredibly addictive, BUT the ladies and the relationships and the characters and! I enjoyed it so much. :D