I feel like this is my most frequent comment to you, but I seriously could have written this! Like, the entire thing. My mom always tells me I just shouldn't wear one because she's European and also grew up in the '60s/'70s when a lot of women just didn't bother. I just can't bring myself to do it. It's like what we think of as a "normal" female body is bra-shaped one, which is depressing.