Yes, the fact that we're expected to wear them but that they can never be showing but if you wear things that cover up TOO much you're a giant prude and people will make Amish jokes...it's like the whole 'you have to wear makeup to make your face flawless but you can't LOOK like you're wearing makeup!' except even worse because your boss won't tell you to wear makeup (most of the time) but they absolutely will tell you not to have your brastraps showing.


I have a bunch of spaghetti sprap dresses that I LOVE, but they're the ones that are most of the problem. I can't wear strapless dresses, really because they all end up riding down. But yeah, if you know any tricks, please do share!