Yeah, it's a cultural thing. It's totally inappropriate at work for any kind of underwear to be showing. Walking around on the street it matters less, but my mama would be HORRIFIED if she saw me. She freaks out if she can tell I'm not wearing a slip. And if I didn't wear a bra at all, I would TOTALLY get judgmental stares from people on the street. And at work I'd be asked to put one on, I know that.

I don't have any 'cute' bras because I can't find any that actually do anything that are cute and comfortable and also not too expensive. The ones I can afford don't seem to do anything but look cute--they don't actually provide any support or anything at all, so you might as well not be wearing one (also lace ITCHES--I have sensitive skin, so any kind of decoration tends to itch). Plus, no one's ever going to see my bras but me so I don't really feel any reason to wear cute ones; I'd rather wear comfortable ones. Most of mine are flesh-colored because I don't want them to show through thinner/lighter clothing, and I can't reconcile spending lots of money on other colored ones when I can just wear the flesh-colored ones under anything.

But it must be nice living in a place where you can wear them visible/not wear one at all. *wistful sigh*