You don't have the icon that I think of you the most anymore. It was the one with Buffy when she's standing in the sunlight, right when she first sees Angel come in the sun. I think it said sunshine or something. idk. But the first time I came over to this LJ was for the whole lack of feminism in Angel article that you linked to, and I posted about how I thought that him helping Faith was less about him being a man and more about him being someone who knew what she was going through because he'd been there and Buffy hadn't.

So, since you don't have that anymore, I'm going with this: though I can't seem to remember WHY. It's just the one that popped out the most when I looked.