Spew away! I have them, too. He was definitely a jerk, and on top of that, he was so all about the patriarchy. He wanted Rory to only ever talk with/be with him--jealousy is not attractive (unless you're Logan Echolls--curse you, Logan Echolls, for screwing up my moral compass!)--and to play the girly role (remember the one with Donna Reed?). And he didn't understand any of the things that were important to Rory. He was an ass about Tristan, he was an ass about Jess, and then he went and got married out of spite! The whole thing just infuriates me!