Oh, I'm not opposed to other people shipping my OTP with other people, either together or separately. I have a live and let live stance towards shipping, there is no way to do fandom "wrong" (except when you're doing it wrong, but then you're an anti or whatever the newest word for that is), shipping isn't pie where there is less for me just because someone else gets a slice.

I'm simply not interested in it that much, but that doesn't make someone else's stance any less valid. I don't believe in ship wars (I've lived through the original shipper vs noromo war of the X-Files generation, I'm done with that).

But I think for me, I have a certain headcanon and it's very hard to shift that headcanon away from a specific pair. But that's definitely a me thing! More fanfic is always preferable!

ETA: And I mean. Especially wangxian, no way there's to see that differently, very fixed there.